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"Mother Porn" - Mentioned as a collection of photos the guest looks at on her phone, representing moments with her children.
"Fleishman Is in Trouble" by Taffy Brodesser-Akner - The guest's friend recommended she read this book, and she ended up being cast in the series adaptation without reading the script first.
"Rob Delaney's book about losing his son" by Rob Delaney - Mentioned as being helpful and profoundly moving when researching paternal grief for a role.
Videos & Documentaries
"The Brutalist" - The guest and her husband worked through this film together as artists.
Research & Studies
"Spy Camp" - An organized event where writers for Homeland spent a week talking to people from the intelligence community to research for the show.
Tools & Software
Odoo - An all-in-one integrated business software platform mentioned as a way to simplify business operations.
Meta - Mentioned for its investment in AI infrastructure and bringing jobs to communities.
Articles & Papers
"Complicated grief" - The guest read books about this topic for research.
"Paternal grief" - The guest read books about this topic for research.
People Mentioned
Carrie Mathison - A character played by Claire Danes, referenced as someone the host frequently mentions.
Hugh Dancy - Claire Danes' husband, also an actor, described as a great artist and cook.
Henry Bermel - A writer for Homeland whose family worked in the CIA, providing an "inroad" for research.
Rob Delaney - Author of a book about losing his son, referenced for its emotional depth and humor.
Esther Solace - A judge whose son was murdered, mentioned in the context of understanding how someone copes with profound loss.
Julian - A founder of "The Snack Lab," who used TikTok ads to grow his business.
Sarah Jessica Parker - Mentioned as someone with a different approach to public communication compared to Claire Danes.
Joan (Joni Mitchell implied) - Mentioned as someone who "sings like an angel," representing a different form of artistic expression.
Organizations & Institutions
Meta - Mentioned for its investment in AI infrastructure and bringing jobs to communities.
CIA - The Central Intelligence Agency, referenced in relation to research for the show Homeland.
The White House - Where the host worked on 9/11, mentioned in the context of how Homeland resonated with people in government.
The Snack Lab - An exotic snack company that used TikTok ads for growth.
Courses & Educational Resources
Acting classes - Claire Danes started taking these in Roseburg.
Performing arts junior high school - Where Claire Danes met other kids who did acting professionally.
Websites & Online Resources
Meta.com/buildingamerica - Website to learn more about Meta's investment in AI infrastructure and jobs.
Odoo.com - Website to try Odoo business software for free.
getstarted.tiktok.com/tiktokads - Website to learn about using TikTok for business advertising.
Other Resources
"Mother porn" - A colloquial term used to describe looking at photos of one's children.
"Brain Porsche" - A metaphorical term used to describe the experience of playing highly intelligent characters.
"The Cry Face" - A term that has been used to describe Claire Danes' intense on-screen expressions.
"Tough and nervous" - A phrase used by Claire Danes' mother to describe her, which Danes feels is an apt description of the characters she plays.
"Spy Camp" - An intensive research period for the writers of Homeland.
"Mother's Day" - A reference to the concept of "mother porn."
"TikTok ads" - Mentioned as a successful advertising platform for businesses.
"Medela" - A brand of breast milk pump, referenced in the closing of the podcast.