Choose Your Holiday Energy: Don't Match Their Drama
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Books
- "The Bible" (Romans) - Referenced for the scripture "as far as it depends on you live at peace with everyone," which is presented as a helpful guide for navigating holiday peace regardless of faith.
People Mentioned
- Pastor Mike Hayes - Mentioned as a friend who demonstrated intentional leadership by having everyone at a Thanksgiving dinner say something kind about his mother, shaping the host's perspective on leading conversations.
Other Resources
- Hallmark movies - Used as a cultural reference point to contrast with the reality of family gatherings, suggesting holidays are not meant to be perfect like a Hallmark movie, but rather about love trying its best.